BARBARA MINTY (STEVE'S WIFE) ON MCQUEEN!
>Steve and Barbara Out on the Bike
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BARBARA MINTY: " I first met Steve when I went to Los Angeles and I got a call from my agent that Steve McQueen wanted to see me for a part in his movie as his Indian Guide---which I've never acted before in my life. So, It was kind of goofy. The way I got it, he saw a picture of me and it was for a Bahamas ad or something and he called to find out who I was and how to get me there. And it was just---instant attraction. We went to dinner that night, and took a road trip! So, that was the beginning of it. I knew him more as a person than an actor. And when he acted and he'd read his lines, I'd laugh and have to go into the other room. Cause I thought, "This guy gets paid how much to do that?"
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"When we got married, you could tell that he wasn't feeling well. But, I mean everyone gets the Flu. So, we found this beautiful, beautiful little house in the country, planted a bunch of trees and bred horses. I loved living in the (airplane) hangar. (Steve had an airplane hangar where he stored all of his antique motorcycles, and toys along with his plane). That was so wonderful. You'd lay in bed and click a button and the front of the hangar would open up. And you could watch the planes come in and out with your coffee, go fly a plane. Steve liked to hold court. He'd have his chair. And everybody just come around. But I think he just really wanted to experience life and I think he knew that there was something going wrong. So, he was going to take as much advantage of his life as he could.
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"He was acting very strangely and he went for a really long motorcycle ride. And I found him on a hill, thinking. And I said, "Honey, you have got to go in (to the hospital). Let's just go in and you know, just get it checked and X-rayed" . They did the biopsy and they found that it was Mesothelioma Cancer and they didn't give him very long to live. He said to me, "Well, you want to go live in the desert and spend it, or do ya want to get better?" I said, "Try to get better". So, he tried. He tried really, really hard. He really did.
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"We went to the alternative medicine clinic. It was in Rosa Rita Beach. They did all sorts of weird things to him. In hindsight, I wouldn't have done it again with him, but he just went through it and he did really well. It just didn't work. He was very positive, very strong. And I think he had a visitor one night who sat on his shoulder and talked to him and said, "You have this way, or this way off the fence". One day he just said, "That's it. That's it". And it just broke my heart.
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"For me, the whole four years was just the most beautiful learning experience. And it was a gift. He was a great teacher and a beautiful man. And I loved him very much".
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13 Comments:
ALL: I would be remiss if I didn't mention Barbara McQueen's book here. Dalton Watson Fine Books is releasing her photo book, "Steve McQueen: The Last Mile" with co-author Marshall Terrill. It is due out this year.
Wow. It's like the Steve McQueen network over here. All Steve McQueen, all the time!:)
Steve McQueen is one of my all time favorites. I had the grand pleasure of meeting him at the Sebring race in 1970 and found him as genuine as they come!
Good story, Michael.
I am just finishing a book on alternative medicine and diet supplements so Barbara McQueen's comment at the end hit me hard, Michael. It's certainly a terrible thing that McQueen, with all his talent, was struck down so young.
what a pity they had such a small amount of time together.
HI, Janet! Oh, yeah! We're gearing up for my 2nd Annual "Steve McQueen Virtual Film Festival". These posts have been leading up to the Festival. And in a departure from last year, I wanted to bring this year's event to life with hearfelt recollections from the people in Steve's life. lol!
Seamus: THAT is AWESOME! You are very lucky. He was paired up with Peter Revson there for the 12 hour race in preparation for the 24 hours of Le Mans. I'd love to hear more about this. Did you have a chance to meet Neile?
jean-luc picard: Many Thanks!
Utenzi: I'm eager to see both Neile and Barbra's books. I have read Ali MacGraw's story that was well written. Alternative medicine options have expanded since 1980 and Dr. Andrew Weil has written a great deal of many books with hopeful "New" alternatives. I have to remind myself that this was 27 years ago. Steve was exposed to massive amounts of asbestos in the service and also from working in a tire factory.
Hellbunny: Yes. Four years. They married in January and he was gone by November. But she and Steve's flight instructor helped him find peace from the accounts I've read, Steve did make peace with God and others before he passed. He is very inspiring! And he did so much for The Boys Republic. He left them quite a bit in his Will. A fine person.
That was a very good story!
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for a great read Michael. Reading this sort of reminds me of a quote from the movie the wizard of Oz.
The moment is when the wizard is giving the heart to the tin man. The wizard speaks.
Remember love isn't measured by how much "we" love but how much "we are loved by others".
In short, it is nice to read what others have to say about Steve McQueen. In a very tough business like show business.
Thanks again.
Lee Ann: Wednesday is a nice introduction and we roll March 1st. My intention with all of this was to lend a nice backdrop to what people (who are following this) will be seeing. I hope it makes for a very interesting "Festival". lol!
Glenn: That is an amazing analogy. There is just so much in this guy's persona that makes me appreciate the era (historically not all that long ago) of Steve and his contemporaries like Paul Newman and Robert Redford. They each came on the scene during the emergence of James Dean and Marlon Brando. Yet, they each "carved" out a unique style in each and every film they appeared in. Many Thanks Glenn!
I have always loved Steve McQueen and miss him very much!! I think he was a very hansome man and great actor!!! I wish he was still with us!!! Angel-
Great comments Glenn.
I worked in the industry as an orchestra member recording the scores that went with his films. I did most of them. He indeed was a fabulous person.......carrying very much for the underdog. I read Grady Ragsdale's book describing his 4 years with him and then rode up and met his wife Judy, Sammy Mason, Steve's flight instructor and his sons and wives...What a great esperience....even went to his church one Sunday.
Thanks again for a wonderful synapsis.
Dan Anderson
Dan: Thank you for sharing! Very nice!
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